BIh!!! What Is You Doing!!!
I wanted to start this blog for all the women out there struggling to find worth within themselves. Struggling to find value in the connections that they make and for those who have had a hard time seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. This Blog is for you!!! This blog is for the women who feel that their voice isn’t heard, those who gave their power away knowingly or unknowingly. For those women that need a break from holding the world, past traumas, confusions and the duties of men on their shoulders. For those who need guidance on how to get back to the center. I stand with you. I pray with you. I sing with you. I dance with you. I get tired with you. I cry with you. I laugh with you. I learn with you.
I am YOU!!!
I do not sugar coat in this blog because life isn’t going to sugar coat your lessons and journeys. Life will not coddle you into victimized mindsets or help you stay in that stagnant comfort zone. Therefore neither will I. I am the fire under your ass , the itch under your left titty, the mosquito bite on your big toe, the glass in the rocks. I am your awakening!! Some will not be able to deal with me forcing love and accountability onto them and that is ok. I let them go with no hard feelings. I will be here when you are ready to be serious about YOU. Until then everything I do will annoy the suppressed and motivate the rest. My goal is to help you break down your past traumas, your toxic coping mechanisms, self sabotaging habits, and low self esteem and help you transmute that energy into something profound and beneficial to your journey.
You Are Playing The Wrong Game!!!
A lot of women have been playing checkers instead of chess. You’ve been collecting others past traumas with yours, and making up moves as you go and that can only get you so far. Soon you start to feel like you are burning at both ends with nothing to show for it…
Let me break something down to you about dating and the game called life!!
You have a roster of aint shit ass ‘niggas’ , unreliable friends, still dealing with trying to receive approval of those parents and elders who took your voice, bags under your eyes from ‘doing it all’, and a slew of insecurities because of the choices you have made while in survival mode. Now you’re wondering why you cant find genuine connections or just any kind of beneficial connection that lasts longer than 6months. The long term friends you so call have don’t even know you or have your back like you think they should. Some stuck in a loveless marriage that have you feeling more lonely than when you was single. Others have ended up being an emotional punching bag to their partner or just a punching bag in general. Most of all, a majority are probably still bending over backwards for those that do not reciprocate their energy. IT IS TIME TO WAKE UP!! IT is time to learn how to play the game. So I’m going to do my best to try to break down Shadow work , life choices and dating in as simple as a game of Chess. check out the video above and stay tuned in for more breakdowns.